We wish we were great writers. We wish we could write something in a very clever and witty way. A message that can express what we are feeling by using awesome analogies or by describing every little detail to the point that you feel like you are in the room with us. A great renowned classic novel or even a love letter from a solider to his new wife during World War II, are great examples of how we would like this message to come across. Unfortunately, we can’t. We do not have the skills nor the talent to pen a note like that. wa wa

Our story is a personal one. I have always wanted to be a father. I have always wanted to have my own family that would take care of each other, love unconditionally, and to share life with. Unfortunately, life is like a box of chocolates, and the Universe granted me the gift of being gay. Because of this blessing in disguise, I believed having children of my own was impossible. I thought my dream would never come true until I met someone that wanted children as much as I did. Jesse and I started researching our options and knew that surrogacy would be our path… and so the journey began…

Thanks to Men Having Babies, we gained the information, resources, and guidance to make this unbelievable dream a reality. It takes a village people ;-) and now we have our son, Rocco.

Its Pride Month and it’s time to Celebrate!

Live in-person Pride events are taking place around the globe for the first time in a couple of years…. And it’s going to be nuts!

Jesse and I are adding to this craziness!

Last year we created a display of love for our friends, family, neighborhood and community and raised over $25,000 for The Trevor Project.

This year, in honor of MHB, we have added some magic to our display… ya know, for the kiddos. Please welcome Diamond Buttercup Mist! (Buttercup for short, Mist if you’re nasty!) With the help of Men Having Babies our hope is to raise enough for at least three new bundles of joy.

Please help us and donate today and give the gift of fatherhood.

Your contribution will make an impact, whether you donate $5 or $500. Every little bit helps.

Help support more Rainbow Families!

EDUCATE – DONATE – CELEBRATE

The international nonprofit Men Having Babies (MHB) is dedicated to providing gay men with educational and financial support to achieve parenthood through surrogacy. MHB’s annual conferences, workshops and webinars provide over two thousand attendees worldwide with unbiased guidance and access to a wide range of relevant service providers. The organization’s Gay Parenting Assistance Program (GPAP) annually provides hundreds of couples with over a million dollars worth of cash grants, discounts and free services from over seventy providers. MHB's Membership Benefits Program (MBP) offers a wide range of peer guidance options and access to exclusive discounts from over 50 surrogacy providers. Their extensive online resources include FAQs, a video library, Ask the Expert articles, and a comprehensive surrogacy and gay parenting research library. They offer an unparalleled comprehensive surrogacy providers directory, including peer ratings and reviews of agencies, clinics and law firms. Their Advisory Board of leading surrogacy professionals provides valuable input to improve the programs and leads the provision of expert advice to members, and the framework for Ethical Surrogacy has received endorsements from LGBT parenting organizations worldwide.